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Masturbation is the Sexual stimulation of one's own genitals for sexual arousal or other sexual pleasure, usually to the point of organism. The stimulation may involve hands, finger, everyday objects, sex toys such as vibrator, or combinations of these. Mutual  MASTURBATION (mutual manual stimulation of the genitals between partners) can be a substitute for sexual penetration. Studies have found that masturbation is frequent in humans of both sexes and all ages, although there is variation. (Wikipedia)

I get lots of questions on masturbation most especially
ladies -yes, ladies masturbate a lot, especially virgins.
Guys also
masturbate. There is no debate on that. I'm not here to
about who masturbates most, I need to deal with a
Sexual urge for virgins is strong. What makes it
stronger is the
novelty, newness, the mystery and the hear says about
Masturbation is fondling your genitals consistently to
orgasm. Ladies may stroke their clitoris while guys rub,
or caress their penis. I decided to give explicit
because some ask me what masturbation is. Some
especiallly non-virgins use candles, banana, small
bottles, sticks,
dildos or whatever represents a penis and do solo sex
sex by yourself).
From teenage upward, you will have a strong desire for
sex. It's a
sure sign you are normal and capable of having and
enjoying sex
in marriage. In your 20s it will be stronger and intense!
You may
wake up feeling horny for no single reason in the world
or go hot
on spotting a curvy lady! You may start noticing
shapes and
curves and you have to shake your head several times
to keep
the image off. You may get worked up on watching a
movie and discharge something. You check up and
discover you
are wet. All these are normal, you haven't committed
any sin.
So what then do you do when you get hot and horny?
Have sex?
I know you know my answer and some singles will
never be
caught dead sleeping around, so what do they do?
masturbate! They give themselves release and pleasure
solo sex while claiming virginity at theseame time.
is completely wrong and not the way out. Let me
1. Masturabation is not done in isolation. It is done
with the
image of someone in mind. It can be a lover, an EX, a
a married person, a crush, someone you like but
incapable of
having. You imagine having sex with them while
2. For ladies, while inserting all manner of objects, you
mistakenly deflower yourself and also introduce
infection into your
genitals and womb. It will be very difficult to convince
your future
partner that you never had sex with man except
objects during
your solo sex.
3. You kill your ability to enjoy sex in future. Millions of
don't enjoy sex in marriage which leads to sexual
adultery, lesbianism and feminism. If you are used to
orgasm by yourself, you won't be able to get it from
husband. If you are used to objects in your private
part, you won't
have feelings for your husband's penis. You will
always think of
something harder, bigger, longer, larger and completely
unrealistic! Women who complain their husbands'
penis are too
small didn't marry as virgins. They must have been
as singles.
4. You will not have a good sex life as a man. You will
experience pre-mature ejaculation and your wife won't
enjoy you
leading to acute sexual frustration in marriage. You
need self
control to fully enjoy sex and give your wife maximum
pleasure. A woman enjoys sex when the man can go
on for at
least 7 minutes before ejaculating. Because you are
used to
instant release from masturbation, you may not be able
to go
more than a minute before exploding leaving your wife
unsatisfied and frustrated. She may close up, become
frigid and
stop having sex altogether which may lead to you
having an affair,
she having an affair or both of you having an affair.
Self control
before marriage helps you enjoy sex to the maximum.
You are
able to delay ejaculation, go on for a long time and
have excellent
orgasm while giving your wife pleasure too. That is
why total
virginity pays!
5. If you do not suffer premature ejaculation, you may
serious problem with delayed/ retarded ejaculation. A
where you get erection for several hours without
ejaculation or
orgasm. What is the benefit of sex without orgasm?
masturbation with your hands kills your ability to feel/
enjoy sex
with your wife. It is hell for a woman to be under a
man who
thrusts in for hours unable to ejaculate. How will the
woman get
pregnant? It's the reason some women are seemingly
and can't talk to anybody out of embarrassment.
Thrusting hard
for so long leaves the woman sore, frustrated and
hating sex
altogether. You have so much to lose sexually when
masturbate. Abstaining from this degrading act helps
you feel
relaxed, confident, have normal sexual intercourse and
enjoy the
pleasures that comes with sex IN MARRIAGE!
6. You start having sex in the dream with a known or
person (demonic entities other wise known as spiritual
7. You feel drained, dirty, empty, useless and powerless
each act.
8. You start getting unsatisfied and wants the real
thing. You
fantasize more about sex and start longing for the real
9. You get a warped view of the opposite sex. You see
them as
sexual objects and start having sex with anything in
skirt or
trousers -you become promiscous.
10. You get damaged, hurt and broken.
11. You are at risk of hell fire!
These and more are the consequences of
masturbation. They
damage you and shatter you to pieces! What then
should you do
with your sexual urge? How do you handle the
constant hunger
for sex?
1. Avoid all dirty pictures, pornography videos, pictures
and hot,
romantic movies -they are powerful sexual triggers!
2. Avoid friends who say dirty,lewd and obscene
things. Stop all
sexy banters with friends and say only things that are
pure, holy,
needful and helpful.
3. Get busy with your life, education and career, there
is more to
life than sex.
5. Study the word a lot especially Psalm 119. When
you are filled
with the word, you have no space for the devil and his
demons in
your heart.
6. Pray and speak in tongues always. It sanctifies you.
7. Make friends with godly people.
8. Avoid pornography and romantic movies.
9. Get busy in kingdom service.
10. Give your life to Jesus if you are not born again.
He will
surely help you out.
Masturbation is wrong, bad, demonic, destructive and
Avoid it and end it with immediately if you are deeply involve in it.

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